Despire what Hallmark card writers extol on the bazillion virtues of being in love, oftentimes, the very same condition gives you an opportunity to become very intimate with concepts of indescribable misery and torturous ordeal. The more defensive ones choose the self-defeating mechanism of aloofness or faux disinterest but like you they are also being gnawed by that undeclared ache of being the parallel contributor and recipient of a certain fondness. “Who can resist the thought that s/he is being loved?”, Buscaglia once wrote. Yet actual love experiences are complex and most often they do not rhyme or painted in adorable pastels. There’s so much struggle for those involved and the games people play make the whole shenanigan all the more less simpler than it should be.
Admirable how a few brave souls are not shy at admitting that they are veterans of many failed attempts at this thing, which merits them the unappetizing title of being bonafide losers. But that doesn’t stop them from finding another mistake. You can argue with reason, you can argue with pain, you can argue with experiences. But you cannot argue with passionate hopefulness.
Other people will find the persistence a stupid pursuit. Who in bleep’s sake cares? Of course you’ll do stupid things but do them with enthusiasm.
August 9th, 2009 at 11:43 am
Are you finally back? You’ve been missed, you know?
I agree, no matter how torturous the feelings, people would still opt to find that “one true love” of theirs, despite its bitter aftertaste. One loves to be loved, after all, and once you partake of this drug, you’re hooked.
August 11th, 2009 at 8:32 am
Hmm, hopefully yes! Aww. Thanks man! XD
True true true! Hooked is the right word. :D
August 9th, 2009 at 12:18 pm
When you’re in love, you always be ready when everything falls out.
I fell hard, very hard indeed, many times already, there is always the bitterness, the feeling of being hurt is always there – BUT THAT IS LOVE – it’s sweet but sometimes, it’s bitter.
But who cares, if you’re still capable to be in love again, then go for it even you already looks stupid. :)
August 9th, 2009 at 12:19 pm
*look :D
August 11th, 2009 at 8:33 am
Aww. May pinanggagalingan ba yan Doc Mike? Hahaha.
August 13th, 2009 at 10:46 pm
oo kasi di mo na ako love eh :(
August 12th, 2009 at 2:22 am
how wordy naman this post. i had to start all over again. *toinks*
howishu ken? are you back to us? :)
August 12th, 2009 at 11:36 am
I’m okay naman. Hmm, hopefully. XD